I'm a 22 male and I have been searching for an answer on this site.Sex is not a problem before marriage for me, but what about foreplay if you are certain it will not lead into sex? We do love each other and definitely want to make things right in the eyes of God.But Scripture adopts an entirely different point of view.According to the Bible, sex is all about knowing the other person inside and out and in all kinds of contexts.
That alone is half the battle, but far too many today do not consider matters of right or wrong.
I am obviously not saying that hugs and kisses of affection or greeting to relatives and the like are out of bounds. In some cultures, kisses of greeting — between members of the same sex or of the opposite sex — as well as hand-holding and other forms of physical expression during normal, non-romantic social intercourse, are more common. You might even be able to talk me into the notion that , "non-leaning-in" hugs of greeting, sympathy, etc.
between men and women who are not romantically involved are OK.
Even so, many of these same students miss the point about other types of sexual activity.
"Actually, I think foreplay makes you stronger," says Jenny, 17.